# 2026-03-03: Means of Temptation (Arabic Youth Meeting)

##### Introduction

- Why does Satan tempt us? 
    - Envy
- What does Satan tempt us with? 
    - “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.” (Genesis 3:6)
    - Temptation on the Mount (Matthew 4)
    - “For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world.” (1 John 2:16)  
        
        - The Lust of the Eyes
        - The Lust of the Flesh
        - The Pride of Life
- How does Satan tempt us? 
    - From All Sides

##### 1. From Behind: Past Sins

Satan may tempt us from behind by bringing up past sins

- Nostalgia 
    - "It wasn't that bad"
    - "Those were fun days"
    - "I miss that lifestyle"
    - <span class="text Exod-16-2" id="bkmrk-%22then-the-whole-cong">"Then the whole congregation of the children of Israel complained against Moses and Aaron in the wilderness. </span><span class="text Exod-16-3" id="bkmrk-and-the-children-of-">And the children of Israel said to them, “Oh, that we had died by the hand of the <span class="small-caps divine-name">Lord</span> in the land of Egypt, when we sat by the pots of meat *and* when we ate bread to the full! For you have brought us out into this wilderness to kill this whole assembly with hunger.” (Exodus 16:2-3)</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">They remembered the food, but they didn't remember the slavery  
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    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I remember the days when I had that job that took me away from God and away from my family and away from righteousness, but I made more money... and I could buy whatever I wanted.  
          
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- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Re-Engaging</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Lot's Wife (Genesis 19)</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I might be tempted to re-engage the sin in other ways</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">e.g. someone leaves an inappropriate relationship, but he still checks her social media or looks at old photos or reads old messages</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">e.g. someone eaves a particular sin (lust, violence, drugs, etc.) but continues to watch movies/shows/videos/music that glorifies that sin</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">e.g. re-living a sin through stories... "remember when we used to..." - "back in the day, I would..."</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">e.g. someone struggled with alcohol, they quit, but still hang around environments that smell like alcohol, people are drinking alcohol, or even talking about it</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">e.g. imagination  
              
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- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Despairing</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">After sin, the devil switches tactics:</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Before sin: "It's not a big deal"</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">After sin: "You're disgusting. God is done with you. God will not accept you."</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Judas Iscariot</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">After sin: Despair and Suicide</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">St Peter</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">After sin: Repentance and Return  
              
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- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Identity Confusion</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I am "the guy who messed up"</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I am "the girl who ruined her salvation"</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">St Paul</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Opposite of this - he had persecuted the Church. He could have lived in guilt forever... but he did not allow those past actions and sins to define him or his direction in life</span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">2. From the Front: Anxiety</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Satan may tempt us from the front - through worrying about the future, fear of what will come, etc. This is called Anxiety.</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Anxiety is a problem with PERCEPTION and NOT reality.</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Social Media Anxiety</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Everyone on my feed is happier, prettier, more confident, stronger, etc. than me</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I'm comparing myself to filtered or edited or even AI images</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I'm worried people are talking about me in a group chat</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">When I post something, I watch the likes/comments</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Friendship</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Why wasn't I invited to xyz? Outing, hangout, etc.</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">They're acting different - did I do something wrong?</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What if I lose my friends?</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Body Image or Appearance</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What if I don't look good enough?</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What if I'm judged for how I dress?</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I HATE how I look in pictures</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Academic</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">If I fail this class, my future is RUINED</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Everyone expects me to be perfect</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">If I don't get into the right college or grad school, I'm a failure</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Spiritual</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What if God is disappointed in me?</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I keep falling into the same sin</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What if I never change</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Social</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Wanting to please EVERYBODY (impossible)</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Paradoxical Anxiety</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Anxiety about being anxious...</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">All of these are temptations to loosen our faith. But the Lord answers anxiety in Matthew 6.</span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">3. From the Left: Obvious Sins</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Sometimes, Satan tempts us from the left side with the obvious sins.</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Instant Gratification</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">"Turn these stones into bread"</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Feed the appetite</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Satisfy the urge</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Take what you want now</span>
    - Lust
    - Cheating
    - Substance Use
    - Explosive Anger
    - Gossip
    - Revenge
    - Dishonesty
- Normalized Behavior 
    - "Everyone is doing it"
    - "You're the only one not doing it"
    - "It's 2026!"
- Targeting Weak Moments 
    - Hungry
    - Lonely
    - Tired
    - Stressed
    - Insecure
    - Bored
- False Understanding of Grace 
    - "You can just confess about it tomorrow" 
        - This lie assumes: I will have a tomorrow, I will still care tomorrow, my heart will be soft tomorrow, I will want to repent tomorrow
    - Pharaoh 
        - "Entreat the Lord... and I will let the people go."
        - As soon as he is relieved and comfortable and the plague is gone, his heart is hard again

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">4. From the Right: Good Deeds, Bad Motives</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">If the left side is sin and evil, then the right side is good! Sometimes I am tempted to do good deeds, but with the wrong intention or motive. Or I justify my bad motives by good deeds.</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Vainglory/Praise</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-1"><span class="woj">“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven.</span> </span><span class="text Matt-6-2" id="bkmrk-therefore%2C%C2%A0when-you-"><span class="woj">Therefore,</span> <span class="woj">when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.</span> </span><span class="text Matt-6-3" id="bkmrk-but-when-you-do-a-ch"><span class="woj">But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing,</span> </span><span class="text Matt-6-4" id="bkmrk-that-your-charitable"><span class="woj">that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret</span> <span class="woj">will Himself reward you</span> <span class="woj">openly." (Matthew 6:1-4)</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">The Pharisees did this</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Sometimes I do a good deed in order **to be seen by men**</span></span></span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">For Position or Fame</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">In Acts 8, Simon was very well known for his sorcery and was known by all the people. But when the apostles came and preached Christ, all of the people were baptized and rejected sorcery and accepted Christ. Even Simon, himself, believed and was baptized. And he was amazed by the miracles.</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Then, Simon desired the power of laying hands. He wanted to go back to having power and people knowing him and astonishing people</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">So he offered money to the apostles to give him that power also and they rebuked him</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">YouTube Influencers... </span></span></span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Clothing the homeless, only when there's a camera.</span></span></span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Helping someone in need, but only if the camera is running.</span></span></span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Donating to a charity, but only when it is publicly disclosed.</span></span></span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">For Personal Benefit</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">King Saul is called in 1 Samuel 15 to destroy the Amalekites and all that they have, but he keeps King Agag alive and all of the best of the sheep and the goats.</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">And when Samuel comes to question him he says "We kept the best of the sheep and goats so that we could make a sacrifice to the Lord your God"</span></span></span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">To Maintain my Image</span></span></span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3"><span class="text Matt-6-4"><span class="woj">Ananias and Sapphira</span></span></span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">5. From Below: Laziness</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Satan may tempt me by pulling me downward, like gravity making me heavier and harder to move... laziness.</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Physical Laziness</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Oversleeping</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Gluttony</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Not wanting to leave the house</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Not wanting to do anything (e.g. on a day off)</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Mental Laziness</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I don't want to think deeply</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">"Just tell me what to do"</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Scrolling/YouTube Shorts</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">ChatGPT/AI Overuse</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Spiritual Laziness</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Avoiding prayer because it feels like effort</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Avoiding confession in order to be comfortable</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Avoiding reconciliation because it's hard</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Avoiding discipline because it requires sacrifice</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">"Wicked and lazy servant" in Matthew 25 who buried his talent</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">"Productive" Laziness</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I avoid doing something... by doing something else (less important)</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I feel productive and feel I've done something</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Everyone is always "busy" but what are they busy doing?</span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">6. From Above: More Than I Can Handle</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Satan can also tempt me from above, pulling me up and raising me up with pride to take on more than I can handle</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Ascetic Practices</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Fasting beyond my ability</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Prayer beyond my ability</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Reading Scripture beyond my ability</span>
    - **<span class="text Exod-16-3">This will lead either to failure or feeding the ego</span>**
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Services</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Is there such thing as too many services? YES!</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">If I take on too much, I will leave something incomplete, insufficient, or ignored</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Knowledge</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">The Mysteries of the Holy Scripture and the Church and Theology</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">These are not simply academic endeavors, but they require a strong foundation and spiritual life</span>
    - **<span class="text Exod-16-3">Many "Biblical Scholars" have become Atheists because they did not have the right foundation</span>**
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Spiritual Independence</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">I can do it all by myself! I don't need God, I don't need the Church</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Someone will try to overcome a sin by himself and say "I won't go to confession until I've overcome it" - NO! Going to Confession is PART of the process of overcoming!</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Tower of Babel</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Build a tower so next time there's a flood, we won't be affected</span>
        - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Make myself independent from God</span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">7. From Outside: The Senses</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">I can be tempted by my senses from the world around me.</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">What I see/hear</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What media do I consume</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What kinds of places do I go to</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What kind of music do I listen to</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What kind of language is in the movies I watch or the videos I watch</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What kind of images are in the movies or videos I watch</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">YouTube Shorts, Instagram Reels, TikTok, etc. - all of these are DANGEROUS</span>
- <span class="text Exod-16-3">It's not just about profanity</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What about the subject matter?</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">What about the ideas?</span>

##### <span class="text Exod-16-3">8. From Within</span>

<span class="text Exod-16-3">Sometimes, I am tempted from within. The devil is not within me - but I can be tempted by my human thoughts, desires, passions, dreams. Many times, these are also shaped by what I take in and what media I consume (#7)</span>

- <span class="text Exod-16-3">Thoughts</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Negative self-talk</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Pride</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Planning sin</span>
    - <span class="text Exod-16-3">Thoughts of revenge, envy, comparison</span>
- Desires/Passions 
    - Lust
    - Greed
    - Ambition
    - King David and Bathsheba
- Dreams 
    - Culmination of what I've seen
- Speech 
    - What kind of language do I use
    - What kind of conversations do I engage in
    - etc.

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